Do you wish you could figure out how to stop being shy with guys? Do you find yourself blushing and becoming tongue-tied every time a guy you like talks to you? Are you worried that your shyness is making it impossible for you to get a boyfriend? Not all women can be confident around men all of the time. In fact, most of us are sometimes shy or insecure and so we let great guys slip through our fingers without giving them an opportunity to know us at all. But you can learn to stop being shy with guys you like. Don’t allow yourself to miss out on a great guy. Read on to find out how.
In general, each ring in the trunk of the tree represents a year of growth. This method of dating can be more or less complicated based upon your purpose and end results needed. The entire science is neatly wrapped around a word called Dendrochronology. Don’t ask me where this came from. A gentleman from the University of Arizona developed this theory which later became a science based upon the scientific method sometime in the earlier 20th Century.
Please don’t learn a lot of stupid pick-up lines. They don’t work, on the whole, and they just make you look brainless. If you have to have a line, like a security blanket, then ham it up with one of the golden oldies, so it’s obvious you are having fun with it. ‘How does that line go? What’s a beautiful woman like you doing in a dump like this?’ And if she feels like playing, and you aren’t in a dump, then she’ll probably come back with an equally cheesy line that makes you both laugh.
Still, a girl has to have some rules, otherwise anarchy runs wild and chaos ensues. Believe me, I’ve been without boundaries, and it’s not a pretty sight.
For those first few dates, try to simply think of him as a friend. Refrain from pushing for a romance, especially if he’s not bringing the relationship that way. Some guys are uncomfortable with the thought of a forced garotas de programa porto velho. But by keeping it platonic for a while, the guy can relax and get to know you.
Turn off the noise. This means iPods, stereos, so-called ambient TV noise (you know your ears are going to perk up when Judge Alex gives his ruling), radio and your snoring Boston terrier. It also may mean obtaining ear plugs to buffer the sound of the ice falling off your roof.
Secret #3: Take your time bonding with him. Take as much time as you need. If it seems that you are taking too long than you may not be working toward bonding the right way. Bonding has nothing to do with sex, attraction or even romance. All of those things are fickle and come and go too easily. True bonding happens when you know the worst things about a person and value them anyway. It does not mean that you agree with them, just that you understand and accept them for who they are.